Ask Margar-etiquette about Dogs in Public Spaces

Dear Margar-etiquette,

I’m noticing dogs everywhere these days, in restaurants, stores, and even on airplanes. I know that some people have allergies or are afraid of dogs, so I’m wondering: Have the rules changed? Is it just me, or are dogs being allowed in more places than they used to be?

Puzzled by Pups

Dear Puzzled,

You’re not alone in noticing the ubiquitous presence of dogs in public spaces these days. From cafés to clothing stores to airplane cabins, our four-legged friends seem to be everywhere. A majority of dog owners now consider their animals members of their family and spend an incredible amount of money on special food, clothing, and other products for them. It is beautiful that people love their pets so much.

At the same time, public spaces are shared spaces, and with that comes a need for balance and consideration. While one person may feel comforted by the presence of their dog, another may feel anxious, vulnerable, or even physically unwell. Some people live with serious allergies that can be triggered simply by dander in the air. Others have genuine phobias rooted in past experiences. And some simply value a pet-free environment when dining out, shopping, or traveling.

It’s also important to acknowledge the distinctions between different types of animals in public: service animals are highly trained to perform specific tasks for individuals with disabilities and are protected by law under the Americans with Disabilities Act. Emotional support animals, while meaningful companions, do not have the same training or legal standing in most public settings. And pets, no matter how well-behaved or beloved, generally do not have a guaranteed right to accompany their owners into non-pet-friendly spaces.

What we’re seeing today is a growing gray area where personal comfort is sometimes being prioritized over public courtesy. Clearer boundaries—and mutual respect—help ensure that public spaces remain inclusive and welcoming for everyone, not just for pet lovers.

Love for animals is something to be celebrated, but it shouldn’t come at the cost of downplaying the needs and comfort of others. Thoughtful pet owners understand that part of loving a dog is knowing when to leave them at home.

With paws and perspective, 

Margar-etiquette

#LITA (Love Is The Answer)