In 1998 Kayli

was a typical seven-year-old second-grader, but she was very strong-willed

and argumentative, challenging her teachers and having difficulty getting

along with classmates. The school counselor observed this and enrolled

Kayli in the county's Friends Mentoring Program. That was the beginning

of what has developed into a wonderful and mutually beneficial friendship

between Kayli and Dr. Allen.

During their

sessions, the two discuss family issues, class work, friends, boys, future

goals and whatever else comes to mind as they play games or romp on the

playground or hang out in the library. In a non-authoritative manner,

Dr. Allen acts as a sounding board for Kayli and offers advice when asked

or is deemed appropriate.

"Kayli's

development is best exemplified when she realizes her behavior with a

teacher or classmate was inappropriate and proceeds to explain such to

me as well as how she probably should have acted or responded," said

Dr. Allen.

As a result

of her four-year relationship with Dr. Allen, Kayli's grades have improved

and she exhibits better behavior with teachers and classmates.

According to

program coordinator Donna Worcester, more than 300 students like Kayli

are currently matched with trained mentors who meet with them at their

schools for approximately one hour each week during the school year. Games,

toys and other activities are provided to help bring mentor and student

together. But those are the lucky ones; Worcester estimates that there

are more than 200 students currently on the waiting list for mentors.

But that's

where the story takes on additional dimensions. Witnessing the example

shown by Dr. Allen, more than half of the staff at Fayette Chiropractic

Center has become mentors too. Several have become strong community advocates

for the program, speaking to civic clubs about mentoring. Dr. Allen's

practice has even purchased advertising to help solicit caring volunteers

into the program. But it still comes down to her personal relationship.

"It is

very rewarding to know that I was an influence in Kayli's growth and maturity,"

said Dr. Allen. "She is a wonderful little girl who will go on to

bigger and better things in life. I am proud of her and it is an honor

to be her friend."

"Dr. Allen

is my best friend," said Kayli, now an energetic, talkative fifth-grader.

"I can tell her anything. I hope Dr. Allen is around forever."