Dentists keep us waiting, but don't dare keep them waiting

Dentists keep

us waiting, but don't dare keep them waiting

We all have to face little

ups and downs; that's just life. Sometimes some of our doctors and dentists

refuse to accept these ups and downs and charge us for being late or missing

an appointment and never mention how many times we have been kept waiting

for them.

We recently had to change dentists

because of our new insurer. Our new dentists' group is close but they

would not do a cleaning the first visit, only an exam.

I did not have a car so I got

a friend to arrange her schedule to be able to take me. We got there about

15 minutes early and I filled out the required paperwork. My friend and

I were talking and people kept coming in and being called back. Finally

after a hour I went to the desk. I could see the emergency sheet was empty,

so I waited until someone came to see what I wanted.

When they finally came and

I told her I had been waiting an hour, she said she was so sorry, they

had forgotten me. During the exam the dentist told me I had gingivitis.

He said I needed to use a fluoride toothpaste ($11) and a [special] toothbrush,

over $100. I bought the toothpaste only. I also needed a lot of other

work done, he said. I made an appointment for the next week.

My daughter went next and he

told her she had peritonitis, that she needed the same toothpaste, toothbrush

and also a mouth rinse. My husband happened to be with us and we decided

to take her for a quick second opinion. He tells us she may have a little

gingivitis but using Mentadent toothpaste would cure that.

We immediately realized that

what was on the dentist's mind was the condo in Miami he and his staff

were discussing while he was doing his exam. I forgot about my appointment

until two hours before it. I called and told them I would not be back.

She told me I would be liable for a $45 fee. I told her I had not agreed

to any such fee and since they had kept me and my friend waiting for an

hour my first visit because they forgot me I should not have to pay it.

They have now run the bill up to $98 charging me an $8 statement fee each

time.

None of us make our appointments

with the intent to be late or to not keep them. It would become evident

pretty quickly if we made a habit of it also.

So why do SOME of them think

they must be treated like Gods?

Rachael Reagan

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