I'm not sure I understand the
concept of timing. How many times have your heard, or said, "I'm
waiting for the right timing"? Who sets the time?
I'm not sure I'm the one to
answer such questions, but I think the timing is so very right for a book
I recently discovered. In fact, I know it is the right time for me to
have discovered it.
"Success Is Not An Accident"
a long time. As I go through the book (you can't just read it - you have
to study it), I am wondering where this book was twenty years ago, or
even ten years ago. I needed it then!
And then I think about timing.
Has there been a period any time in my past when I would have taken seriously
the concepts that are so skillfully conveyed on the pages? I honestly
do not know.
I have been tempted to become
discouraged of late. Actually, that's not true, I became so discouraged
on Thursday night, Sept. 21, that I actually considered going home and
burning everything I had ever written and "put away."
Any writer knows what I'm talking
about here. The stuff we write and stick in a box or file it back or...
well, you know, if you are a writer. I was at the Margaret Mitchell museum.
I was standing in front of one of the wall displays (I thinks it's call
a shadow box, maybe) of some of her early work. We're talking childhood
here.
I cannot begin to tell you
what came over me. I almost became ill. I felt like I was invading her
privacy. Like she would not want me or anybody else looking at what was
on display. I could look no further. I didn't even let my eyes wonder
to other exhibits. I only wanted to escape that building.
Am I making any sense here?
Anyway, I was already discouraged.
My mind started wondering... If my work ever really caught on was there
a chance I could one day be exposed like Margaret? The last thing on earth
I would want! But, of course, I'd be dead, so what would it matter? I
was really heading down.
And the next day I continued
to spiral downward. It got so bad that I began to pray and asked several
other folks to pray for me. I mean, normally, it takes months to become
as discouraged as I had grown in less than 72 hours.
THEN, the next day, I discovered
"Success Is Not An Accident." I interviewed the author. He glowed.
He was real. No canned pitched going on here. I can spot a phony a mile
off. Tommy Newberry was/is a blessing. And so is his book from which I
quote today:
Page 81: "It has been
said that four simple words characterize mediocrity most accurately and
they are, 'I didn't have time.' Four simple words. 'I didn't have time.'
There is no excuse more damaging that you or anyone else could have concerning
success. When you tell someone you didn't have time, you simply reinforce
their perception of you as someone who can't be relied upon to get the
job done. And when you tell yourself that you didn't have time, you undermine
your inner credibility and fortify a self-image of underachievement and
irresponsibility."
Trust me here, that quote does
not even begin to tap into the wisdom shared in this remarkable book.
I am reading and studying it. I feel quite strongly that the book is helping
to change my life. The timing is perfect.
Other books by Newberry include:
"366 Days of Wisdom & Inspiration with America's Success Coach,"
"Getting Results," "High Speed Success," "Peak
Performance For Christ," "The Secret Place," "Talk
Yourself Into Success," and "Vital Time."
In closing, another quote from
"Success Is Not An Accident":
Page 69: "Planning really
means evaluating your life in light of where you've been, where you are
now, and where you intend to go. You must be willing to question how well
you've managed your life up until now. Effective planning allows you to
avoid life management by crisis. Crises divert your attention from the
vital people and activities in your life and are nearly always a result
of inadequate planning. Systematic, long-term, yearly, quarterly, monthly,
weekly, daily planning is absolutely critical to your success. Remind
yourself that all successful people plan on paper. Unsuccessful people
simply 'cannot find the time.'"







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