While your article had a
lot of validity to it, there were a few comments that
would disturb any parent, such as myself. I'm a
35-year-old mother of two boys, yet neither are your age.
You could, however, put me in the category of parents
with low tolerance of most teenager's in this day and
age. I'm definitely guilty of stereotyping kids like you
and your peers! Why? Lack of respect!
First of all, I didn't even
grow up when they danced like "Saturday Night
Fever" and "Grease." So, you're basically
"stereotyping" adults. Which, if you don't want
us to do that, then you shouldn't do it either.
When I was growing up, we
didn't have a place to "hang out." I'm positive
we didn't make all of the right decisions, as I'm sure my
parents didn't when they were growing up, which is back
when they really were dancing like "Grease."
The reason you have adults
getting involved in your social life is because we know
what we did when we were growing up. Another reason, you
are still minors. What would your life be like if you
didn't have any guidance? Where do you think you would
be? What would our city be like if we didn't have people
who cared, voiced their opinions, or took action when
things were on the slide?
Fayetteville may be
"boring" but, rest assured, Buckhead would be
just as "boring" for you if you have parent's
who care, which I'm sure you do!
You guys want all of this
freedom and you don't know what to do with it when you
get it. You've got this great place to go and "hang
out," yet, you don't even know how to act.
I assure you when I was
growing up, which wasn't that long ago, we weren't lying
on the ground on top of each other and calling that a
form of "dance." You've got to be kidding me or
really think we're stupid if you think we think that is
the style of "dancing" these days. Call me a
nerd....
Parents will always be
interfering in your life until you're grown, married and
have your own kids... and that doesn't even qualify a
parent to "shut up" or to stop interfering.
There are always going to
be people older and wiser than you. If you don't learn
something everyday, then you're not paying attention.
Everything that you're dealing with now, you'll be
dealing with later in your life, only on a broader scale.
It's called "growing up." You have to go
through the "now" to get to the
"then."
Try to enjoy it, Derek, go
with the flow. Don't knock us adults; we're not all that
bad. I've been a supporter of The Market and only wish
that the kids that use it would practice responsibility
so that it would be successful. That doesn't sound like
the case, now does it?
Oh, and, Derek... parents can
change the way teenagers behave. Just wait!
Ellen M. Schmieder
Fayetteville






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