[Editor's
note: The following speech was delivered May 24 at the
Fayette County High School baccalaureate service by
Fayette Superior Court Judge Chris Edwards. It is
reprinted here with his permission.]
Thank you,
Mr. Adams.
Mr.
Phillips, Mrs. Ridgeway, Mr. Greenhaw, Mr. Sheets, Mr.
Martin, Mrs. McVae, honorable members of the faculty,
much loved parents and grandparents, honored guests, and
most of all to the fabulous Fayette County High School
Class of 2000.
Good
evening.
I am
Griffin Judicial Circuit Superior Court Judge Chris
Edwards.
I quote and
paraphrase without attribution tonight from Jesus and
several he loved: Moses, Solomon, David, Elijah, Paul,
Twain, Adlai Stevenson, Coolidge, Churchill, Eisenhower,
Dr. Ira Slade and my adored wife, Jenny. Now that you're
graduating, remember, one source is plagiarism, but two
or more is research.
I am aware
that countless moralists, like me, are rising in
countless pulpits and platforms all over America to tell
thousands of helpless captives, like you, in exactly 12
minutes, how eternal truths should be applied to their
lives in these uncertain times. These speakers are
telling these seniors everywhere about their role as
responsible, privileged, educated citizens in a free
society. Thank you for the honor of speaking with you.
My humble
graduation gift to you is a few words that I hope ring
true wherever my tears and laughter meet yours.
First, on
persistence:
The
greatest graduation speech ever is this: "Never,
never, never give up," from Winston Churchill.
To that,
add President Calvin Coolidge: "Nothing in the world
can take the place of persistence. Talent will not;
nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent.
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.
Education will not; the world is full of educated
derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are
omnipotent. Many of life's failures are people who did
not realize how close they were to success when they gave
up."
I implore
you to persist first and always in discovering the truth
about God's existence and if you are convinced he exists,
persist in discovering who God is, and whom you shall
serve. You can make yourself a god to yourself, called
selfishness; you can choose among the many gods available
after asking around; or you can ask out loud, when your
desperation finally exceeds your embarrassment, for God
to reveal himself to you. The meaning of your life and
death depends on what you believe. The meaning of your
life is revealed not in how you die, but in what belief
you were willing to die for.
On being
politically correct:
You've
heard about the delicate business of being politically
correct. The real truth is, the root of being political
is merely being polite. Good manners is the art of making
others feel comfortable. No impolite person is
politically correct and no polite person can be
politically incorrect. Love and respect are reflected in
politeness to all. Your heart will follow your words.
On
relativity:
You may
have heard that everything is relative. This is not true.
Right and wrong, truth and falsehood, are not matters of
taste and mere opinion, and this will never change. Live
in truth and you live in peace.
On social
change:
If you want
to make enemies, try to change something. The truth is,
the existing system is the result of thousands of years
of sacrifice, creativity, genius, and constant change.
You cannot
change the world unless you first change the human heart,
meaning, what you believe, beginning with yourself. You
cannot change the hearts and attitudes of others unless
your own heart is changed first. The best way to improve
the world is to first improve yourself beginning with
what you believe and then your family. On the way there,
you will help others, just being who you are.
As real
life begins, you'll go from writing poetry to writing
grocery lists, from reading Faulkner to reading Consumer
Reports, from discussing the great artists until late
into the night to doing the dishes until late into the
night, and in real life, for those so blessed, changing
the world is first achieved by changing diapers.
In college
there is lots of cynical talk from some professors, and
students, about how bad past generations have left the
world. Let me tell you again, you only really believe
what you are willing to die for. My dad believed in every
one of you at Anzio. My uncle, for whom I am proud to be
named, believed in you as a Pacific prisoner of war
tortured every day for three years, 10 months at the
hands of your country's enemies, 85 pounds when found, so
you could be free.
Twice in
this century your noble ancestors, American soldiers,
have delivered the world from certain conquest by
alliances of madmen claiming to lead master races. Anyone
who doesn't appreciate this, understands nothing.
Your
parents and teachers have given their lives and
sacrificed higher incomes to bring you to this very
moment. They believe in you. When you have children,
remember this: their financial success as adults is
largely determined by how much they are read to as
infants and how much they practice reading as little
children. Their every other success depends on your
unselfishness as a model for them to follow.
On
addictions:
You may
have heard that only weak-willed people get addicted. The
truth is, addiction runs in families, by proven genetic
predisposition and also by environmental exposure. Look
at your family and friends and assess your genetic and
environmental risk of addiction. If you're using tobacco,
alcohol, or other drugs and tell yourself, "I can
handle it," or "I can quit when I want,"
you may already be believing the addict's twin lies.
Addictions
steal destinies, turning lives into human train wrecks.
Addiction is the single biggest threat to your future.
The legal drugs, nicotine and ethyl alcohol, both highly
addictive, will kill more people, ruin more lives,
destroy more families, cost more jobs and careers, cost
society more money, and inflict more misery to your
generation, than all other drugs combined, evil as they
are. Fun does not include sudden or gradual
self-destruction.
On friends:
A true
friend, if you have one that sticks closer than a
brother, is a wonderful gift. The truth is, bad company
corrupts your good character. Do not waste your life or
risk your future hanging around so-called friends who
engage in self-destructive behaviors, like complaining,
disloyalty, procrastination, drugs, habitual lying,
acting without purpose, alcohol, bragging, talking about
who and what they hate, abusing trust, smoking, avoiding
duties, slandering others, cheating.
Beware of
those who brag about how much good they've done for
others, because these people are wrongly motivated,
without understanding that there is no lasting reward in
the approval of mere men. If you lack good judgment, then
for starters avoid unreliable people and look for
reliable people. Unreliable people are often also
untruthful and unfaithful. A true friend is one who would
trade his life for yours. Don't let the users and abusers
make a fool out of you.
On Art:
You may
have been told that art, music, and maybe even writing,
are not the best ways to make money. If you have been a
little discouraged this way, I encourage you now, without
neglecting your education or work, to go try to do these
things you wanted to do as a little child. Discover your
gifts now before they are stolen by any unintended
discouraging words. You are not too old to start painting
or buy a guitar, but soon you may be. And, fill your new
homes with great art, great music, and great literature,
and you will discover the greatness of the greatest
creative minds God has placed on earth.
On love and
money:
You have
heard, go to college or technical school to make money.
The truth is, happiness is the ability to work and to
love.
Never
forget that love and charity begin at home. Your brothers
and sisters will be your true friends when other
friendships may fade, and the greatest contribution to
the community is hollow when your own house is not in
order. It is like the flight attendant's speech at the
beginning of a flight - first put the oxygen mask on
yourself, then on your own children and family, then on
others. Unless you first are saved, you cannot save
others. Giving back to your community means first
improving yourself beginning with what you believe, then
improving your family by loving them, then others by
loving them. We have a deep desire to love others
deposited in us, so prepare your own heart first, then
enjoy the richness of loving and helping others.
Here is a
secret: The Golden Rule, doing good toward others, is
really nothing but man's love for God but expressed
toward other men, because they are made in the image of
God.
Remember,
at the end of life, all you take with you is what you
gave away.
To parents:
Get ready.
It is a
scientifically proven fact that the smartest person in
the world is a college freshman home for Christmas. I
pray you have patience as you persist in teaching and
modeling wisdom, while remembering, our children are
loaned to us.
Graduates
of the fabulous Fayette County High School class of the
year 2000: from you now, to your much loved parents,
grandparents, aunts, and uncles, brothers and sisters,
faculty, administration, and all who got you here, please
stand up and say "thank you" and "we love
you" now with your applause.
The Lord
bless you and keep you, the Lord make his face shine upon
you and be gracious to you, the Lord lift his face upon
you, and give you peace.
Good night.






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