If you read
my column last week you know I was harping on and on
about the need for more simplicity and quiet places and
peace - all that glorious stuff that has become so
scarce during this amazing 20th century.
Well, I'm
still there this week. And I'm not alone. In fact, I've
been commiserating with friends about the fact that we
have far too many choices.
I know. You
want to remind me of how many times I've talked about how
precious our choices are, and how healthy it is to
remember that we always have choices.
I still
feel that way. But there are extremes.
For
instance, yesterday I spent ten minutes standing in front
of four shelves of tomatoes at Kroger. The canned tomato
space was probably more than six feet wide. Three times I
scanned the shelves for tomato sauce. I saw crushed,
diced, whole, Mexican, Italian, and many brands of all of
the above, but no sauce. Finally, I turned to a gentleman
standing beside me, who also had been scanning the
shelves forever, and said, "I don't know what you
are looking for, but if you happen to see the tomato
sauce, please point it out to me."
"That's
what I'm looking for, too. It's not here," he said.
"I've scanned the shelves three times."
Three was
the magic number before giving up, I suppose. We went on
our way without any plain old tomato sauce.
A few
minutes later, a little boy came running towards me,
"Hey, lady, we found it. We found the tomato
sauce!"
It was in
the spaghetti sauce area among more brands of prepared
spaghetti sauce than I dared to count.
A few weeks
ago I was looking for coffee filters at Ingles. I looked
and looked and counted 18 different strange
brands/designs before my eye roved over to the right
beyond the countless bags/brands of coffee where I
finally spotted plain old Mr. Coffee filters. Actually, I
think I bought the Ingles brand which was beside Mr.
Coffee. I only recall with certainty that I was quite
frustrated before I finally found what I was looking for.
How much
time do we waste each day "enjoying" all our
choices?
I recall,
as a child hearing my dad, who was then the same age I am
now, speak of the good old days when things were simpler,
slower, easier...
I wondered
at his musings and thought he just needed to learn to
appreciate more things. Now it is I who longs to
appreciate less.
I, however,
am not alone. The youth of today may be wiser than I was.
They too voice frustration over the busyness, the waste,
the perplexities of today's world. I do think simplicity
may be on its way back "in."
Perhaps,
with a strange twist, the complexity of the computer age
and the Internet may help us learn how to claim the
simplicity and order we are all beginning to crave?
Don't you
just love it when your computer crashes? Freezes up.
Turns one font into another. Letters to numbers...
A computer
will do all sorts of irritating things when we overload
it. When we try to open too much stuff at one time. When
we insist that it think about too many things at once.
Get the
picture? ...And we wonder what causes Alzheimers and
other memory impairment problems.
Ah, yes, my
mind and heart longs for quieter, simpler times. Will my
yearnings lead me in the right direction/s? Indeed,
choices, choices and more choices.
I recall
with trepidation the words of the prophet Isaiah:
"For thus the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel, has
said, `In repentance and rest you shall be saved, in
quietness and trust is your strength.' But you were
unwilling."
Are you
swallowing as hard as I am? Do you want to file your
thoughts away for a later time when you are less
flustered? Would you prefer to consider ways to simplify
your life after you have worked though at least a few of
the problems/duites that call today? Are you too busy to
think about subjects like repentance and rest?
Then you
and I are too busy.







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