Ordinarily,
an article like the following would appear elsewhere in
this paper:
A wedding
of Fayette County interest took place Aug. 7 in Jefferson
County, Ga., as Joyce Drinkwater of Louisville, Ga.,
owner and editor-publisher of The News and Farmer,
married Cal Beverly of Peachtree City, editor-publisher
of The Citizen.
The couple
exchanged vows under a camp meeting tabernacle at Mt.
Moriah Campground near Matthews. The communion service
was led by the Rev. Danny Treadway of Louisville United
Methodist Church, the bride's congregation, and the Rev.
Mark Baldwin of Peachtree Christian Fellowship, where the
groom is a member.
Dwain
Little directed the chancel choir of Louisville UMC. A
"Gospel Sing and Celebration" followed
dinner-on-the-grounds.
But
ordinary this story is not.
Those may
be the facts about Cal and Joyce's wedding, but they lack
the old/new, high tech/homespun yin/yang of the event
itself and the way it came to be. One could hardly script
a more symbolic bridge between millennia.
In some
ways, this pairing could not be more - as Joyce
herself described it last winter - "21st
century: two-town, two-career."
Let me back
up a little. Cal was extremely interested, and hung on my
every word when I told him about our daughter Jean's
having met her husband-to-be via Christian Connections,
an Internet dating service.
Little did
I know then that he had met Joyce in precisely the same
way, at precisely the same time, their relationship also
moving swiftly from cyberspace to telephone calls into
the wee hours.
Not
surprisingly, the fact that both are newspaper publishers
provided a base of understanding between them. Joyce said
one of her girlfriends put it best: "Here was
someone who `gets me'... and still likes me."
But Cal's
memo breaking the news to his staff revealed the dilemma
their professions created: "Joyce has deep roots in
her community and has no plans to sell her paper,"
the only one in Jefferson County. She's a very hands-on
owner, covering meetings, writing stories and columns,
selling ads, doing layout.
token, he said, "I have no plans to leave [The
Citizen.]"
Couldn't
they work together? "She told me clearly she wants
to marry me, not work for me." And vice versa.
The
reactions of their children were mixed, to say the least.
Cal's are adults, and mostly supportive if cautious.
Joyce's boys are 13 and 9, and seem to like Cal a lot.
And yes,
the difference in the couple's ages has raised an eyebrow
or two.
There are
philosophical differences too. You may have noticed that
Cal is a conservative. Make that A Conservative. Joyce
calls herself a "moderate, at least."
Their
hometowns are dissimilar. Located about an hour southwest
of Augusta, Louisville is not on the way to anywhere, and
I have yet to find anyone (other than Cal) who had
visited there before Aug. 7. It's a jewel of a town set
in a county whose emerald fields belie the drought.
What a
heritage. Modeled after Philadelphia in 1786,
specifically for the purpose, Louisville was Georgia's
first capital, from 1796 to 1806. Broad Street, spine of
a vibrant downtown, is split by a strip of shade trees.
On it still
stands an oak-timbered open-air slave trading pavilion
built in the 1790s, the only such market remaining in the
state.
Then
there's Cal's town, incorporated in 1959, in a county
with more subdivisions than Joyce's has gnats.
But the
bottom line here (and I'm not revealing anything not
mentioned during the wedding ceremony itself) these were
two lonely people in search of companionship. They hold
in common what matters most, Joyce said: their faith and
a conviction that "we were brought together by God
and the rest will take care of itself."
So, I've
sketched for you how it happened. Let me try to paint the
wedding.
We drove to
the campground between fields filled with hayrolls baking
in the sun. Cars were already parking under the dark
trees, desperate for shade. To no avail: the thermometer
on our outside mirror read 101.
Women in
bright dresses were carrying dishes into the little
church annex, mercifully air-conditioned - then
cheerfully stepping back out into the noon heat. Dave
observed later that the only people complaining about the
heat were the "city folks" from Fayette County.
A dozen or
so ceiling fans tried valiantly to move the air under the
tabernacle - a vast permanent open roof similar to
the original built about 1829 - where a congregation
gathered on wooden benches and fluttered cardboard fans
with a picture of the bride and groom.
The choir
had been there rehearsing, since 10, and, I learned
later, most stayed through the hymn to sing following the
ceremony. We joined them in "Blessed Assurance"
and "Great is Thy Faithfulness."
Joyce wore
a soft cafe au lait two-piece dress and the kind of hat
usually described as a "picture hat," and
carried a mixed bouquet of flowers. Her younger son
struck the noon hour by tugging the rope on an ancient
bell, and her niece, a dimpled doll in a long flowered
dress, strewed petals as Joyce entered on Cal's arm.
The scene
could not have been more traditional and old-timey, but
with surprises: Gospel music to an electronic keyboard.
Galvanized washtubs of lemonade and tea awash with ice
cubes. Covered dishes and homemade ice cream.
The bride's
father's gleaming Honda Gold Wing three-wheeled
motorcycle.
Several
generations of Jefferson countians gathered in heat that
wilted sunflowers. Several more rested cool underground
on the gentle hill above the tabernacle.
The choir's
"I wanna live in a Lord-built house" inspired a
few guests to wonder where the house would be.
Enough to
"live in a Lord-built house with a structure built
on love, with a rock foundation under me and the Heavenly
Father above!"
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