Shakespeare probably wasn’t talking about shared office space or family calendars, but lately it feels unusually appropriate.
Room has been on my mind. Room in a building. Room in a calendar. Room in a business. Room for family. Room for an idea to become something different — and maybe better — than the original plan.
A local theater company and I have been talking about building a shared performance space, Shakespeare-style, with The Nexus serving as both its literal and figurative lobby.
At first, sharing the space wasn’t part of the vision. The plan was to build it, fund it, fill it, and make it work — alone. But the more the idea settled, the more sense it made. The whole building doesn’t have to sit on one set of shoulders. It can be supported by many.
The picture now: a dark hallway lined with lit-up art, opening into what I keep calling the “Nexus hotel lobby” — a shared common area that doubles as a gathering place before a show. One room stays private, for the deeper working sessions The Nexus was built for.
Room has become just as important in how I’m trying to structure my time.
At Roundtable Tuesday, during the “wins and what’s up” round, I talked about a different kind of win: keeping mornings for myself and weekends for family instead of automatically giving that time to work.
One of the other members said he’d always admired how I juggle so much while still making time for the people who matter most.
My first thought was, you’d see it differently if you were the one juggling. From the outside, it looks like balance. From the inside, it’s just constant motion — deciding, again and again, what gets your hands right now. The win isn’t that I’ve figured out how to do everything. It’s that I’m getting better at putting some things down on purpose.
That’s what made Peyton’s first day of school feel different this year. Instead of squeezing it in around the day, we cleared the whole thing — walked her in together, breakfast after, a few errands, lunch, pickup, one more treat before heading home. Nothing about the day was efficient. That was the point.
The same thing happened over the weekend at Lake Martin, where all five of us ended up in one room together — an accidental family slumber party that became one of the best parts of the trip. Add a full day on the boat and a Braves-Mets game, and suddenly nothing more was needed than good company and a box of Cracker Jacks.
Put the building and the calendar side by side and a pattern shows up: both got better once I stopped trying to hold them alone.
For a long time, growth looked like more. More work. More responsibility. More ideas. More space.
Today it looks a little different. Growth is knowing what doesn’t have to be carried alone.
A shared building doesn’t make the vision smaller. Protecting time doesn’t make the work less important. And keeping one room closed doesn’t mean every other door has to stay shut.






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