Ask Margar-etiquette about Walking Etiquette

Dear Margar-etiquette,

I saw this on TikTok and then noticed it in real life. Have people forgotten how to share the sidewalk? At crowded festivals or even just downtown, it seems like everyone is walking four across, bumping into each other, or stopping in the middle of the path. Is there such a thing as walking etiquette?

Nearly Trampled

Dear Nearly Trampled,

You’re right—walking is such a basic human activity that we rarely think of it as needing etiquette. But when sidewalks are busy or crowds gather at festivals, small acts of consideration make a big difference. Think of it as “traffic rules” for your feet:

• Keep right, pass left. Just like driving, most people expect to stay on the right-hand side. This simple habit keeps everyone flowing smoothly. If you’re slower, hug the right edge so that faster walkers don’t have to weave around you. It’s not about speed—it’s about predictability.
  
• Single file in crowds. Walking shoulder-to-shoulder with friends may feel cozy, but if your group is blocking the entire sidewalk, you’re creating a human barricade. In busy spots, adjust—go two by two or single file so others can move freely. You can still talk; voices carry.
  
• Step aside before stopping. Pausing in the middle of a walkway is the pedestrian version of slamming on your brakes without warning. If you need to text, tie a shoe, or study the festival map, ease over to the edge. That way, you get your pause without creating a traffic jam.
  
• Mind the pace. A leisurely stroll is wonderful—but not when it’s holding up people behind you. If you notice folks bunching up, step aside or let them pass. On the other hand, if you’re the fast walker, don’t tailgate; give people space before you pass.
  
• Strollers, wagons, and bags. Extra gear means extra awareness. Strollers and wagons are great, but remember they take up more space and need more turning room. Don’t block entrances or stop in bottleneck areas.
  
• Backpacks deserve their own rule. A bulky backpack can double your width and easily bump others if you’re not careful. In a crowd, wear it in front or keep it tight against your back. When you turn, think of your backpack as having a “swing radius” and adjust accordingly.
  
• Be gracious. Crowds guarantee the occasional bump or brush. A quick “excuse me” or an apology smooths over most collisions before they escalate into conflicts. Courtesy is contagious—if you use it, others will often follow suit.
  

At its heart, walking etiquette is about awareness: recognizing that public walkways are shared spaces. A little courtesy helps us all get where we’re going—safely and pleasantly.

With step-by-step kindness,

Margar-etiquette