A legal
issue is brewing in Fayette County that may have serious
implications for churchgoers.
The
Official Code of Georgia Annotated states: "Every
communication by any person professing religious faith
seeking spiritual comfort, or seeking counsel to any
Protestant minister of the Gospel, any priest of the
Greek Orthodox, Catholic Faith, any Jewish Rabbi, or to
any Christian or Jewish Minister, by whatever name called
shall be deemed privileged. No such minister, priest, or
rabbi shall disclose any communication made to him by any
such person professing religious faith, seeking spiritual
guidance, or seeking counseling, nor shall such minister,
priest, or rabbi be competent or compellable to testify
with reference to any communication in court"
(O.C.G.A. 24-9-22).
Well,
that sounds pretty
comprehensive, doesn't it? If you read the above,
wouldn't you believe, if you went to a minister, priest,
or rabbi for counseling, that anything you shared in the
counseling session would be kept confidential? In fact,
in the law as quoted, the minister, priest, or rabbi
(hereafter, the word "minister" will be used to
refer to all such clergy designations) is actually
forbidden under the law to disclose such information.
Yet, in
June 1999, a College Park pastor, the Rev. Creflo A.
Dollar, Jr., senior minister at the huge World Changers
Church, received a subpoena to appear for a deposition in
the matter of Janice Holyfield vs. Evander Holyfield and
was ordered to produce, among other things, records of
marital counseling sessions.
Dollar
has refused to appear to give a deposition and has also
refused to deliver documents or to provide information
regarding the marital counseling sessions. As a result,
he has been slapped with a contempt citation that may
result in Dollar going to jail. The contempt charge,
currently under appeal, was issued by a Fayette County
Superior Court judge following the pastor's refusal to
give a deposition.
Dollar has
stated that testifying in a divorce case would destroy
the trust between pastor and parishioner. Which, if
course, is the reason that Georgia ministers are not
compelled to testify in court in matters involving
counseling. Dollar has vowed that he will go to jail
before he complies with the order to turn over counseling
records. Well, good for him. That's the kind of minister
I would go to if I needed counseling or spiritual
guidance.
Several
years ago, I was
struggling with some issues and went to a minister of a
different denomination than the one in which I currently
serve. I trusted the man and bared my soul, seeking
wisdom about how to deal with the things I was facing.
Within two weeks, a man in a town thirty miles from my
location asked me about the things I had shared with the
minister "in confidence." I never went to the
minister again and never shared anything beyond the time
of day with him. He had betrayed my trust, an
unforgivable sin for one who deals with delicate issues.
Not only
does my current denomination believe in the
"sanctity of the confessional," our bishop has
made it clear that any minister under his charge that
violates the principles of confidentiality, even under
the threat of a court order, will be out of his church,
out of work, and out of the ministry. Well, good for him,
too!
Recently,
a teenager
approached me and said, "Father David, if I shared
something with you in confession that was bad, you'd have
to tell my parents, wouldn't you?" He was quite
shocked when I assured him that anything he shared with
me would stay with me and would die with me, whatever the
issue. If parents don't like that, tough.
Only with
that level of commitment to confidentiality can the
counselee have trust and confidence in the spiritual
advisor. Too many church members, trusting their
minister, have discovered, to their horror and dismay,
that their trust, fearfully given, was cruelly betrayed.
Once trust has been broken, it can never - no, not
ever - be restored.
Like the
Rev. Dollar, I have been subpoenaed to court in a divorce
case. I did not refuse to appear but, once in court, I
refused to reveal any information unless both parties, in
my hearing, gave their full and unqualified permission.
In the
future, the only
difference will be that I will refuse to provide any
confidential information even if both the parties give
their permission. The stakes are too high to relent on
this issue.
In my 28
years of ministry, I have heard confessions regarding
every kind of sin and perversion. In fact, I'm pretty
certain that nearly every sin has been confessed. Nothing
shocks me, offends me or surprises me. My job is to help
the person achieve peace with himself and peace with God
and to help him or her become restored to a full and
enjoyable life.
I am not a
source of information for court proceedings. Neither is
the Rev. Dollar. Neither is any other minister, priest or
rabbi in the state of Georgia. Our job is not to make the
court's job easier. Our job is to serve and assist those
under our care.
Let's
pretend for a moment that you have committed adultery. Or
maybe you have been involved in a theft. Perhaps as a
teenager you were involved with bestiality. Maybe you've
been into prostitution. It could be that you are addicted
to pornography. Maybe you appeared in a triple-X rated
film. Perhaps you killed innocent people in a war zone.
Maybe, you've even murdered someone. It may be that you
are plagued with the memory of an abortion. Or maybe your
issue is one of the thousands of other sins and problems
that afflict humankind. No one wants their deepest and
darkest secrets revealed. So, who do you go to get help
and relief?
If you
go to your
minister, and if he is a person of ethics and integrity,
you may rest assured that your story will remain private.
Unless, of course, the minister betrays your trust (if
you have any doubts, don't share your most intimate
secrets) or unless the government attempts to intrude
into the private domain of the church counseling room or
the sacred confessional.
Some would
argue that ministers are subject to the laws of the state
in this matter. But I would argue that the above law
assures both the minister and parishioner that the
government is not to intrude and that the minister is
forbidden to reveal this sensitive information to anyone.
But sometimes the modern minister, like the ancient
Apostle, simply must choose to "obey God rather than
man."
It won't be
the first time that a Christian leader has been thrown
into jail by the government for following his principles.
It surely, though sadly, will not be the last.
[David Epps
is the pastor at Christ the King Church. He may be
contacted at www.ChristTheKingCEC.com or at [email protected] .]






Easy button Return it to long suffering taxpayers including those who have paid huge tabs to educate other people's kids…