Tom Landry died last
weekend. So, did Charles Schultz. So did Maud Adcock.
Tom Landry, of course, was
the head coach of the Dallas Cowboys professional
football team. For some 29 years, he led "America's
Team" to victory after victory before stepping down
into retirement and into pro football history. Landry
left coaching, but the Cowboys continued their winning
ways. His legacy lives on.
I grew up under the
influence of Charles Schultz and his Peanuts comic strip.
In fact, Charlie Brown is older than I am by some three
months. On the last day that Schultz's final comic strip
appeared in the Sunday paper, the Peanuts creator died.
But in books, and magazines, and television reruns,
Peanuts continues. Schultz will soon be honored
posthumously by a congressional gold medal. His legacy
lives on.
Maud Byrom was born during
the spring of 1912, the oldest child in a very large
family, to a farming couple in Coweta County, Ga. She
would graduate from a high school that no longer exists,
Starr High School, in Sharpsburg, and would fall for a
young man named Elbert Adcock with whom she would share
long walks, taffy pulls, and hay rides. On Christmas Eve,
when Maud was 25, she and Elbert would kneel in the
sanctuary of Turin Methodist Church and be pronounced
husband and wife by the Rev. J. W. Hancock. Elbert would
flush with embarrassment as he knelt at the altar,
remembering the hole in his shoe that was now visible to
the congregation.
But, these were Depression
years, so the congregation understood. It wouldn't be an
easy time ... work was hard to find and the farm chores
the couple shared were rigorous. "Little
Charles," their firstborn, would die at age 5,
creating enormous anguish for the young couple. Three
other children would be born to Elbert and Maud,
including a set of twins, in the following years.
Perhaps it was the
difficulty of the Depression years or maybe it was the
loss of their precious child, but the couple would do two
things that would make an enduring difference to those
who would come after them.
First, in 1959, the Adcock
family bought 80 acres of land, just outside the small
town of Senoia, on Ga. Highway 16. In those days, the
property was in the "boondocks" part of the
county, far away from the activities of the nearby towns.
On this land, Maud and her husband raised cows and pigs
and farmed the land.
Maud, never one to shirk
hard duties, milked the cows, canned the vegetables, and
kept a garden. In fact, she would have a garden every
year until she was past 83 years of age. Even at 83, she
would water the garden carrying two five-gallon buckets
full of water. She made clothes for the children, churned
her own butter, and often worked outside the home to help
the family finances. The Adcock children would never have
to have holes in their shoes.
Over the years, the couple
made some of their land available to their children and
family members. Slowly, over time, nine houses would be
built on the family land as the Adcock clan defied the
modern trend and maintained a close extended family, with
all the members living near and helping each other.
Secondly, Maud would never
lack for small children in her home again. All of the
love that she would have given to "Little
Charles," she poured into her other children, her
grandchildren, and even her great-grandchildren.
After Elbert died,
completing 53 years of marriage, Maud, who was now
"Granny" to everyone, continued to serve as the
matriarch of the family, wipe away the tears of children
large and small, and feed the hoards of children that now
descended on the Adcock land.
It wasn't unusual for the
grandchildren to bring home friends who would always be
welcomed with a hug and something to eat. The children
fished in the lake, rode the cows and pigs, chased the
chickens and consumed copious amounts of fried chicken,
butter bean sandwiches, dumplings, and peach cobbler. She
never complained. She never turned away a child and, in
fact, would help to actually raise many kids - some
her own, some not - over her lifetime.
Then her health began to
fail. As leaves falling from a tree signal the coming of
winter, subtle signs told the family that Granny was
slipping into her final time. For a brief time, Maud went
to a nursing home but, then, the family that she lovingly
cared for over the years determined that she would come
home. Bringing her home was easy. The hard part lay
ahead.
Keeping her home was
emotionally draining, time consuming, and extremely
expensive. But keep her home they did, sacrificing
themselves for her as she had for them. Even in her last
days, she was reaching out from her bed to touch the new
generation of children, toddlers and babies mostly, that
now lived on her land. Just a few months shy of her 88th
birthday, surrounded by her family, she quietly joined
Elbert, Little Charles, and Jimmy, another son who died
two years ago.
The chapel in Newnan was
filled to capacity with family, friends, and others who
had sat at her table over her long life. On a bitterly
cold, rain-swept Sunday afternoon, her family gathered at
the cemetery in Senoia to tearfully say good-bye. As they
held each other and wept, the pounding rain finally drove
the family from under the tent and back to their cars.
Most of them went back to the land that Elbert and Maud
bought 41 years ago. Her legacy continues.
[Father
David Epps is rector of Christ the King Church. He may be
contacted online at [email protected]. For
additional information, log in at www.ChristTheKingCEC.com .]






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